The Unwillingness of Patients to Heal
The Unwillingness of Patients to Heal: A Doctor’s Perspective
By Dr. Parth
Neurology, Neurospace Science
The Journey Beyond Medicine
Department Neurology & Psychiatry: Since one profound evening in 2017, the boundaries I once knew dissolved entirely. In that moment, everything became a part of me, and I became a part of everything—an unbroken unity that transcended all separation. At the time, I was known to the world as a physician, devoted to healing the body. But within, I was transformed by the depth of that experience.
It wasn’t merely a shift in understanding—it was a complete awakening to the interconnectedness of all existence. The challenge lay in how to express this profound inner reality without it being misunderstood. I was no longer just a doctor; I had become a bridge between science and spirit, between the physical and the boundless.
Today, people around me see me as an enlightened physician—not merely treating ailments but offering a path toward true well-being. But, deep within me, everything resides, and through my work, I strive to bring that oneness into the lives of those I serve
Before this evening, I was a robust, confident man. I was thriving as a general physician, earning respect and a good income. Yoga was far from my world—it was, to me, something vague and unnecessary. My real passion was martial arts, particularly Israeli self-defense techniques. In our training, we were taught how to master our thoughts and emotions, not for peace or joy, but for survival. I thought I had life under control.
But life, in its profound wisdom, humbled me. Although I had practiced gymnastics since childhood and admired my guru’s intelligence and discipline, I never gave importance to the subtler aspects of life. My time was consumed by reading, earning, and achieving. I had a unique ability to absorb books at an incredible pace—20 pages in an hour, fully immersed, with every detail etched in my memory. Even today, I can recall where something is written in a book I read decades ago.
Yet, all this intellectual prowess was insignificant in the face of what unfolded after 2017. Patients would come to me with ailments, but I could see beyond their bodies, into the roots of their suffering. The answers were not in their flesh or bones but embedded deep in their very being. Without knowing how or why, I would sit with them for hours, and they would leave not just healed but transformed.
The Case of Resistance
One particular Scenario highlights the challenges and potential in holistic healing. A concerned mother brought her young daughter, who was recovering from surgery for a neurological condition that had resulted in hemiplegia. The mother shared that previous medical teams had expressed limited optimism due to the complexity of the disorder and had prescribed lifelong medications to manage the condition.
This encounter emphasized the importance of exploring avenues that go beyond conventional medicine, focusing on holistic and integrative approaches to enhance the patient's quality of life and well-being.
However, When I examined her, I saw that one of her energy centers was completely locked, dense with lifetimes of unresolved memories.
I began working with her. Within three days, her gait improved, and her drooling stopped. The mother was ecstatic, calling me a blessing. But when I asked them to bring specific materials like zinc and iron for the next phase, hesitation set in.
Eventually, they complied, and we continued. By the seventh day, her condition had improved significantly. I then suggested a simple pranayama practice to address the remaining blockages. That’s when resistance reared its head.
The mother dismissed it outright, calling it “nonsense.” She demanded medicine instead, saying her daughter would cry if asked to do yoga. I explained that without addressing the root cause, the imbalance in her system would persist. But they refused to continue.
A few months later, complications arose. Her condition worsened, and the mother returned, angry and accusatory. Though we resolved the misunderstanding, it left me questioning—what is the role of a doctor when a patient resists their own healing?
The Larger Issue
This case is not an isolated incident. Today, most patients are unwilling to engage with their own healing process. They come burdened with frustration, ego, and resistance. They want quick fixes and convenience, not long-term solutions.
Healing is not just about curing the body. It is about aligning the body, mind, energy, and consciousness. Yoga, the most profound science of well-being, is often dismissed as superstition or irrelevant. But without addressing the root of imbalance, no treatment can offer lasting relief.
My guru once told me, “If someone comes to you as a patient, they must first become a disciple—not to you, but to life. Only then can true healing happen.” Back then, I thought I could outsmart this wisdom. Today, I see the futility of trying to help someone who is unwilling to help themselves.
Healing does not come from the doctor alone. It arises from the patient’s willingness, intensity, and trust. Unless a person is ready to step beyond their limitations, no doctor, no medicine can help.
Q&A: Understanding the Challenges of Healing
Q: Why do patients resist healing practices like yoga or pranayama?
A: Resistance often stems from ignorance, ego, or a lack of trust. Many people seek convenience over commitment, prioritizing quick fixes over deeper healing. Additionally, societal perceptions and misinformation about practices like yoga contribute to this resistance.
Q: Can a doctor guarantee complete healing for a patient?
A: No doctor can guarantee healing because it depends on the patient’s willingness to participate in their own recovery. Healing is a collaborative process, and without trust, openness, and effort from the patient, the best treatments may still fail.
Q: What can be done to improve the relationship between doctors and patients?
A: Building trust and educating patients about the importance of holistic approaches can bridge the gap. However, patients must also take responsibility for their healing journey. Doctors are facilitators, not magicians.
Q: How does yoga help in healing?
A: Yoga aligns the body, mind, and energy, creating harmony within the system. This alignment allows the body’s natural healing mechanisms to function optimally. Practices like pranayama and meditation address the root causes of imbalance, going beyond mere symptom management.
Conclusion:
Healing is not just about the doctor’s skill or the medicine prescribed. It is a partnership that requires trust, effort, and openness. Patients must recognize that true healing lies in their own willingness to embrace change and align with life. Without this, even the most profound treatments will fall short.
Editor’s Note:
This story highlights the struggles faced by doctors when patients resist their own healing process. In a world driven by quick fixes and instant gratification, this narrative delves into the complexities of healing, the role of trust, and the importance of personal commitment. It also includes a Q&A addressing common questions about patient cooperation and holistic healthcare approaches.
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