Love at First Sight Is Beautiful — But Marriage Requires Clear Sight. You Are Not Marrying a Person — You Are Marrying Their Past. If you look at life without sentimentality, you will see this clearly: A human being is not just flesh and bone standing before you. A human being is memory. Layers and layers of memory — genetic memory, emotional memory, social memory, karmic memory. What you call “past” is not behind them. It is alive within them.
When Thought Turns into Flesh From Mind to Molecule If you observe yourself carefully, you will see this: A thought by itself is harmless. It is just a movement in the mind — a ripple. Nothing more. But the moment you go after what you like, and push away what you dislike, the ripple gathers force. It is no longer a thought. It becomes emotion. And once it becomes emotion, it is no more psychological. It becomes physiological. This is where most human beings miss the mechanics of their own suffering. Thought Is Light. Emotion Is Glue. A thought passes like a cloud in the sky. But when you say, “This I like” or “This I hate,” you are no longer just thinking — you are investing life energy into it. Your like and dislike are not small things. They are powerful adhesives. The moment identification happens, the thought sinks deeper. It is no longer floating in the mind — it begins to register in the body. This is how a simple mental ripple becomes a chemical event. How a Thought Becomes C...