The Hidden Power of Rejection By Parth

The Hidden Power of Rejection: Unlocking the Secret to True Healing

Why Does Pain Exist?

Pain is not random. It is the physical expression of rejection—a silent echo of the parts of you that have been denied, suppressed, or ignored. Have you ever placed your hand over a painful spot? Try it. You will notice something curious: the area feels numb, almost foreign. It doesn’t feel like you; it feels like something separate. This is not just pain—it is an exile within your own body.

Every rejection in life manifests in four dimensions: physical, mental, emotional, and energetic. When someone insults you, why does it hurt? Because the part of you that already feels unwanted takes the hit. And when a counselor tells you to “accept it,” they are not telling you to tolerate injustice—they are asking you to integrate the fragmented, rejected aspects of yourself.

The Silent War Inside You

Anger, anxiety, sadness—these are not emotions that happen to you. They are consequences of rejection. You wanted to take a midnight ride on your Bullet, but your family said no. It wasn’t just the plan that got rejected—it was you who felt denied. These small moments accumulate, building an invisible prison inside you.

Krishna said, “Lust and anger are not different.” When desire is fulfilled, it intoxicates you; when denied, it turns into rage. Anger is the poison that brews when you do not get what you want. Sweetness and bitterness in your system are not accidents—they are choices. The question is, what are you choosing?

Healing Is Not About Someone Fixing You

No healer in the world can heal you. Only you can heal yourself. A healer may inspire, guide, or push you forward, but transformation is an inside job. Even the greatest guru cannot force healing upon you unless you are ready. You must decide.

This is why acceptance has become the new mantra. Every self-help book, every therapist, every spiritual teacher tells you to accept. But acceptance is not passive—it is an active revolution inside you. The rejected parts of you will not simply dissolve because you wish them to. They will fight back. They will resist. They will block every step forward.

The Truth About Astrology and Rejection

Go to an astrologer, and they will tell you a certain planet is “blocked.” But most of them do not understand what they are saying. Graha—the Sanskrit word for planet—does not mean the physical Sun, Moon, or Mercury is inside you. It refers to the influence these celestial bodies exert upon your life. If the sun is scorching today, will you not feel its heat? Of course, you will. Yet, people curse the sun for shining too brightly. This is how blind they are to the reality of influence.

Listen to No One—Except Your Own Truth

Unless you are self-realized, do not blindly listen to anyone—not your parents, not your friends, not society. Why? Because every single person you meet is also carrying their own rejected self.

When you say “I,” what are you referring to? Your body? Your mind? Your emotions? No. You are the residue of rejection that has not yet been filtered out.

So, filter it out. That is what inner science, NMCP, and Shoonya are for—to extract the essence of who you are from the layers of rejection that bury you alive.

The Magic of Acceptance

Two rejected selves meeting do not create harmony; they create war. The world is in chaos because rejected selves are clashing, exploding into violence. But if you introduce a single drop of acceptance, the entire dynamic shifts. The other person softens. Resistance is never defeated by force; it melts in the presence of overflowing love.

Try this today: when someone insults you, do not react. Instead, watch yourself. Observe the rejected part of you rising up. Accept it. Witness it without judgment. You will not react—you will respond. And once you start responding instead of reacting, you will see the truth: the problem was never with the world. It was always within you.

Walk Like You Own the Universe

Humility comes with power. Do not drag your rejected self through life, weighed down by your own mind. That is a prison of your own making. Walk with love, and the world cannot ignore you.

For ten years, wherever I have gone, people have noticed—not because I seek attention, but because when you walk with love in your heart, people must respond. There is no other way.

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In a Nutshell

Why does pain exist? Because every rejection expresses itself as pain in your body. Have you ever tried to touch the place where it hurts? Do it now. The moment your fingers meet that pain, you will notice something strange—the area feels numb, almost alien. It doesn’t feel like your body; it feels like something separate from you.

Every rejection you experience manifests itself in four dimensions: physical, mental, emotional, and energetic. When someone abuses you, do you feel good about it? No. Because the rejected part of you always takes the hit. And when a counselor tells you to "accept it as it is," they aren’t asking you to accept the situation; they are guiding you toward embracing the rejected, blocked, and stuck parts of yourself.

Anger, anxiety, sadness, depression—every mental and emotional state that weighs you down is a byproduct of rejection. Perhaps you wanted to ride a Bullet at midnight, but your family rejected the plan. It’s not just the plan that was rejected; it was *you* who felt rejected. These seemingly trivial moments accumulate, shaping your experience of life. Krishna declared that lust and anger are not two separate things—if lust is released, it makes you uncontrollable; if denied, it turns into rage. Anger is the bitterness you create when you do not get what you desire. Whether you generate sweetness or poison in your system, *it is your choice.*

You are not changing; you are choosing. Healing is not about someone "fixing" you. No healer in the world can truly heal you unless you open yourself up to healing. It is *you* who heals yourself. A healer may inspire, guide, or catalyze the process, but the real transformation comes from within. Even the greatest healer can only help if you are ready.

This is why acceptance has become the key to healing. Every self-help book, therapist, and spiritual teacher tells you to "accept." But true acceptance is not passive; it is an *active integration* of the parts of yourself that you have cast aside. The rejected self will not simply dissolve because you will it to. It resists, it obstructs, it fights back.

If you go to an astrologer, they might tell you that a certain planet is "blocked." But they may not truly understand astrology. *Graha*—a Sanskrit word often translated as "planet"—does not mean the physical Sun, Moon, or Mercury is inside you. It refers to the *influence* these celestial bodies exert upon you. If the sun is scorching hot today, will you not feel its heat? Of course, you will. But instead of embracing the reality of influence, people often curse the sun for shining too brightly. This is the level of distortion in their understanding.

Unless you are self-realized, do not blindly listen to anyone. Not your parents, not your friends, not society. Why? Because every person you encounter is also carrying their own rejected self. When you say "I," what are you referring to? Is it your body? Your mind? Your emotions? No. *It is the residue of rejection that has not yet been filtered out.*

So, filter it out. That’s what inner science, NMCP, and Shoonya are about—distilling the essence of who you are from the layers of rejection you have accumulated.

Two rejected selves meeting do not create harmony; they create conflict. War, violence, and suffering arise from the collision of unaccepted parts of people’s inner worlds. But if you introduce a single drop of acceptance, the dynamic shifts. The other person will soften. Resistance can never be crushed by force; it can only melt in the presence of overflowing love.

Try this today: when someone insults you, do not react. Instead, look within. Feel the rejected part of you rising up in resistance. Accept it. Witness it without judgment. You will find that you no longer react—you respond. And once you start responding instead of reacting, you realize the problem was never with the outside world. *It was always within you.*

Don’t walk through life as a rejected self, burdened by your own mind. That is a prison of your own making. Walk with love, and the world cannot ignore you. For ten years, wherever I have gone, people have noticed—not because I seek attention, but because when you walk with love in your heart, people *must* respond. There is no other way.

Editor's Note

Dr. Parth – Beyond Science, Beyond Self ⚕️A Neurologist. A Neurospace Scientist. A Yogi. An Enlightened Being. 🪶Dr. Parth is not just a man of science; he is a bridge between the known and the beyond. With unparalleled clarity and depth, he brings forth a new dimension of health—one that transcends treatment and enters the realm of true well-being. For those who seek not just answers, but transformation. For those who wish to go beyond medicine and into life itself. For those who are ready to awaken to a greater possibility. ➡️Step into the journey of consciousness with Dr. Parth.