Q: Namaskar Parth, I want to understand—why is talking considered a leakage of energy? Many times after practices I feel so joyful that I want to tell others about it. But you say this turns the energy outward and slows the process. How does simply opening the mouth undo what sadhana builds?
Parth: Look, this is something most people will never pay attention to.
Energy is not some abstract idea—it is happening every moment within you.
If you simply sit quiet, have you noticed… the energy naturally begins to fall inward?
Just the way water finds the lowest point, energy finds the deepest point in you—if you don’t disturb it.
But the moment a desire arises—I want this, I want that—you have already turned the direction outward.
And if you open your mouth to speak, phew—now you’ve floored the accelerator.
The outward movement is not a trickle anymore, it's a flood.
This is why, in every genuine spiritual path, the first instruction is silence.
Not because we want to control your voice—if talking could enlighten people, by now the whole world should have been enlightened… because everybody is talking endlessly.
Talking does not transmit realization—it only transmits opinions.
And more importantly, the moment you speak about what is happening within you, you dissipate the very energy that created it.
Many people have some beautiful experience during sadhana—something subtle, something alive—
and immediately they want to share it with ten people, tweet about it, start a WhatsApp group, give a lecture.
When you do that, two things happen:
One: you throw your energy outward
Two: that inward movement which was preparing to take you deeper… suddenly stalls.
So we tell people: Don’t talk about your inner processes. Not even with your family.
This does not mean we want to make you mysterious or secretive.
It is just simple mechanics—
the more you spend outward, the less you grow inward.
And haven’t you noticed?
After a lot of talking—particularly when you speak intensely—you feel drained.
Then the body wants compensation.
Either it wants food, or people’s attention, or sexuality—because that’s the closest way the system knows to refill what it has lost.
Talking is an expenditure.
Sadhana is an investment.
Talking disintegrates you.
Sadhana integrates you.
So a seeker who values his time and life energy becomes very conscious—
What I say, how much I say, when I say… and whether I need to say anything at all.
This is why in the yogic tradition, we speak only when it is necessary.
Not because expression is wrong—
but because transformation needs energy going inward, not leaking outward.
If you can simply sit, breathe, and be—without the need to talk, narrate, prove, impress or convince—
then what is possible within you is far beyond anything words can ever carry.

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